Well then.. well bloody then, then!!
So I come to the conclusion that Wordpress used to be good but after taking out the “post_category” field in the db table “posts” I find it frustratingly hard to achieve the quick links for my blog posts sorting process regarding “categories” /sigh
So I, and by this I blame Nuttycoder lol, am going to start writing my very own blog from scratch. Yes! 100% all my own work in achieving building this new blog, ofc it wont be anywhere near as powerful in the longrun as Wordpress but that I dont care about 
it will have everything I will need for this site giving me total power to customise it for my site and use.
Its gonna be a bit of a challenge I guess, most of the code I know, but some im gonna have to learn 
Some of it has already be added to my CMS, writing new posts, editing new posts, adding categories, editing new categories, and editing comments, Im yet to get to the displaying of all the content yet and the call back of it from the db will be my hardest test.
I best get working again then 